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What this page is, and what Clear Steps is
Recognizing the moment
How to recognize that it is time
- Promises to cut down or stop that have not held, more than once
- Drinking or using earlier in the day, alone, or in secret, and anger when it is mentioned
- Money that cannot be accounted for, missed work or school, or a job that is suddenly at risk
- A DUI, an arrest, an ER visit, a fall, or an overdose reversed with naloxone
- Withdrawal symptoms in the morning: shaking, sweating, nausea, or drinking to steady the hands
- Anxiety, depression or sleeplessness that is getting worse alongside the substance use
- Family life reorganizing itself around the person: hidden bottles, covering stories, children who have learned to stay quiet
The process
How a professional intervention works
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Get help from a professional: An interventionist, an addiction counselor, a social worker or a physician helps the family decide whether an intervention is the right step, who should be in the room, and how to handle a loved one with a history of violence, a serious mental illness or suicidal thinking, where a different approach may be safer.
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Form the team: Usually four to six people the person respects and cannot easily dismiss. People who are likely to lose their temper, or who are struggling with their own use, are asked to help in other ways.
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Gather information and arrange treatment in advance: The team learns about the condition and the treatment options, and lines up a specific program with a specific start date before the meeting. This is where Clear Steps comes in. A vague "you should get help" gives the person room to stall. "Your assessment is at 2 pm today in Londonderry, and we will drive you" does not.
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Write it down and rehearse: Each person prepares what they will say: specific incidents, how those incidents affected them, and what they are asking for. The team rehearses with the professional so that the meeting stays on script when emotions run high.
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Decide on consequences: Each person decides, in advance, what they will change if the offer is refused, and commits to following through. This is the hardest step and the one families most often skip.
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Hold the meeting: The person is brought to the meeting without being told in advance. Each team member speaks. The treatment plan is presented and the person is asked for an immediate answer.
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Follow through: If they say yes, the plan begins that day. If they say no, the consequences begin that day. Either way the family continues its own support, which is why we point every family to our Family Support Program.
Our role
How Clear Steps coordinates with the interventionist your family chooses
- Explain the levels of care in your state in plain terms, so the family and the interventionist are describing the same program to your loved one
- Verify insurance with the carrier ahead of time, with the plan details you have, so there is no coverage surprise on the day
- Hold a clinical assessment slot at Londonderry or Needham for the planned day and time when scheduling allows, and confirm a backup
- Tell you what to bring: a photo ID, the insurance card, a list of current medications, and the name of any doctor or program they have seen
- Arrange a detox referral first if withdrawal is likely to be medically risky, so the handoff from detox to our outpatient program is planned before anyone leaves the meeting
- Speak with the interventionist directly, with your permission, so the logistics are settled before the meeting starts
- Be reachable on the admissions line during the meeting itself, because the question that gets asked is almost always a practical one
The day they say yes
What happens the same day if your loved one agrees
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The call, or the confirmation: If you planned ahead with us, a family member calls to confirm the assessment slot. If you did not, call (603) 769-8981 anyway. The line is answered 24 hours a day and same-day assessments are available in many cases.
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Insurance check: Admissions verifies the plan with the carrier, or confirms the check already done, and explains any deductible or copay before anything is scheduled. If there is no insurance, we talk through what is available.
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The clinical assessment: A licensed clinician meets with your loved one at Londonderry or Needham, talks through what is going on, screens for withdrawal risk and for anxiety, depression or trauma, and matches them to the right level of care using the ASAM criteria. Dr. Richard Marasa, MD, our Medical Director, oversees the medical evaluation and any medication decisions.
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Detox first, if it is needed: If the assessment finds that withdrawal needs medical supervision, we arrange a bed at a partner detox facility and plan the step back into our program for the day they are discharged. We do not provide detox on site, and we will say so plainly rather than let anyone assume otherwise.
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The start date: For most people the answer is a start in Day Treatment, an intensive program or evening groups within days, at the center closer to home. You leave with a schedule, a point of contact and the date of the first family support session.
Involuntary treatment
Can I Make a Family Member Go to Treatment?
Massachusetts: Section 35 civil commitment
Section 35 of Chapter 123 of the Massachusetts General Laws lets a court order someone into treatment for an alcohol or substance use disorder. It is a civil proceeding, not a criminal one. Only a spouse, a blood relative, a guardian, a police officer, a physician or a court official can file the petition. Girlfriends, boyfriends, friends, neighbors and therapists cannot. The petition is filed with the clerk at any District Court, the Boston Municipal Court or a Juvenile Court, and once filed it cannot be withdrawn without the court's permission.
The court schedules a hearing and summons the person, and it can issue a warrant if they do not appear. They have the right to a lawyer, and the court appoints one if they cannot afford it. A qualified physician, psychologist or social worker examines them. A judge can order commitment only if the person has an alcohol or substance use disorder and there is a likelihood of serious harm because of it, and that risk has to be current and tied to the substance use. Having a substance use disorder is not enough on its own. A commitment can last up to 90 days, and the courts note it is usually much shorter. It means inpatient treatment in a facility the state licenses or approves, and neither the family nor the person chooses which one.
The state calls involuntary commitment the last option and says outcomes are often better when a person is willing to engage in treatment. If you think there is immediate danger, contact your local police or emergency services. The free Massachusetts Substance Use Helpline, (800) 327-5050 by call or text or HelplineMA.org, is open 24/7 and can talk you through the options.
Sources: M.G.L. c.123, section 35, and mass.gov on who can petition, filing a petition and the process and criteria.
Our family guide to Section 35 in Massachusetts walks through the petition, the hearing, where people go and what happens after, step by step.
After a Section 35 commitment ends
When a commitment ends, the law says the person is to be encouraged to continue treatment, and the facility makes aftercare recommendations and referrals, but the court cannot make them take part (mass.gov). That handoff is where outpatient care fits. Clear Steps Recovery does not file Section 35 petitions, does not provide Section 35 beds and has no inpatient or overnight beds. Once your loved one is ready, we coordinate an assessment, often the same day, and a start in Day Treatment or Evening Treatment at our Needham center.
New Hampshire: no Section 35 equivalent
New Hampshire has no court process like Section 35 for addiction alone. The state's involuntary admission law, RSA 135-C, is written for mental illness, and RSA 135-C:2, X says mental illness does not include impairment caused primarily by intoxication from alcohol or drugs, or by dependence on or addiction to them. Apart from court orders in criminal cases, New Hampshire's substance use treatment law, RSA 172, provides for voluntary admission.
Police may take a person who is intoxicated or incapacitated by alcohol or drugs into protective custody for their own safety, for no more than 24 hours, and the law says this is not an arrest (RSA 172-B:3 for alcohol, RSA 172:15 for drugs). It is a safety measure, not treatment, and it is not something a family can start. If you or someone you love is in immediate danger, call 911.
That leaves the voluntary routes, which is where families have the most influence. Dial 211 to reach The Doorway NH, which has nine locations, is reachable 24/7, helps people access every level of treatment and offers phone and in-person support to loved ones. The Doorway also encourages family members to get support for themselves, whether or not their loved one seeks help. Clear Steps Recovery in Londonderry does not provide detox or inpatient beds. When your loved one is ready, we coordinate the assessment and a start in PHP, IOP or Evening IOP.
New Hampshire
Drug and Alcohol Intervention Help in New Hampshire
Insurance and cost in New Hampshire
Family support in Londonderry
Massachusetts
Drug and Alcohol Intervention Help in Massachusetts
Insurance and cost in Massachusetts
Detox in Massachusetts comes first when it is needed
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