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What this page is, and what Clear Steps is
Recognizing the moment
How to recognize that it is time
- Promises to cut down or stop that have not held, more than once
- Drinking or using earlier in the day, alone, or in secret, and anger when it is mentioned
- Money that cannot be accounted for, missed work or school, or a job that is suddenly at risk
- A DUI, an arrest, an ER visit, a fall, or an overdose reversed with naloxone
- Withdrawal symptoms in the morning: shaking, sweating, nausea, or drinking to steady the hands
- Anxiety, depression or sleeplessness that is getting worse alongside the substance use
- Family life reorganizing itself around the person: hidden bottles, covering stories, children who have learned to stay quiet
The process
How a professional intervention works
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Get help from a professional: An interventionist, an addiction counselor, a social worker or a physician helps the family decide whether an intervention is the right step, who should be in the room, and how to handle a loved one with a history of violence, a serious mental illness or suicidal thinking, where a different approach may be safer.
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Form the team: Usually four to six people the person respects and cannot easily dismiss. People who are likely to lose their temper, or who are struggling with their own use, are asked to help in other ways.
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Gather information and arrange treatment in advance: The team learns about the condition and the treatment options, and lines up a specific program with a specific start date before the meeting. This is where Clear Steps comes in. A vague "you should get help" gives the person room to stall. "Your assessment is at 2 pm today in Londonderry, and we will drive you" does not.
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Write it down and rehearse: Each person prepares what they will say: specific incidents, how those incidents affected them, and what they are asking for. The team rehearses with the professional so that the meeting stays on script when emotions run high.
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Decide on consequences: Each person decides, in advance, what they will change if the offer is refused, and commits to following through. This is the hardest step and the one families most often skip.
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Hold the meeting: The person is brought to the meeting without being told in advance. Each team member speaks. The treatment plan is presented and the person is asked for an immediate answer.
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Follow through: If they say yes, the plan begins that day. If they say no, the consequences begin that day. Either way the family continues its own support, which is why we point every family to our Family Support Program.
Our role
How Clear Steps coordinates with the interventionist your family chooses
- Explain the levels of care in your state in plain terms, so the family and the interventionist are describing the same program to your loved one
- Verify insurance with the carrier ahead of time, with the plan details you have, so there is no coverage surprise on the day
- Hold a clinical assessment slot at Londonderry or Needham for the planned day and time when scheduling allows, and confirm a backup
- Tell you what to bring: a photo ID, the insurance card, a list of current medications, and the name of any doctor or program they have seen
- Arrange a detox referral first if withdrawal is likely to be medically risky, so the handoff from detox to our outpatient program is planned before anyone leaves the meeting
- Speak with the interventionist directly, with your permission, so the logistics are settled before the meeting starts
- Be reachable on the admissions line during the meeting itself, because the question that gets asked is almost always a practical one
The day they say yes
What happens the same day if your loved one agrees
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The call, or the confirmation: If you planned ahead with us, a family member calls to confirm the assessment slot. If you did not, call (603) 769-8981 anyway. The line is answered 24 hours a day and same-day assessments are available in many cases.
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Insurance check: Admissions verifies the plan with the carrier, or confirms the check already done, and explains any deductible or copay before anything is scheduled. If there is no insurance, we talk through what is available.
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The clinical assessment: A licensed clinician meets with your loved one at Londonderry or Needham, talks through what is going on, screens for withdrawal risk and for anxiety, depression or trauma, and matches them to the right level of care using the ASAM criteria. Dr. Richard Marasa, MD, our Medical Director, oversees the medical evaluation and any medication decisions.
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Detox first, if it is needed: If the assessment finds that withdrawal needs medical supervision, we arrange a bed at a partner detox facility and plan the step back into our program for the day they are discharged. We do not provide detox on site, and we will say so plainly rather than let anyone assume otherwise.
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The start date: For most people the answer is a start in Day Treatment, an intensive program or evening groups within days, at the center closer to home. You leave with a schedule, a point of contact and the date of the first family support session.
New Hampshire
Intervention help around Manchester, Derry, Nashua and Salem, NH
Insurance and cost in New Hampshire
Family support in Londonderry
Massachusetts
Intervention help around Needham, Newton, Wellesley and Boston, MA
Insurance and cost in Massachusetts
Detox in Massachusetts comes first when it is needed
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